Re: Ass Kissing - A Canadian - epidemic.
Posted: Sun Sep 10, 2017 10:57 pm
[quote author=Liquid Charlie link=topic=7023.msg18988#msg18988 date=1504961722]
I guess if you want to be a big ballsy type of guy and pound on your chest and say "I kiss no one's ass" all the more power to you but like most things there likely a far better approach to accomplish the same results and not piss everyone off and have people think you are a total idiot. I never liked trying to push a chain is just never seems to work. The trick is to able to get you point across and have people respect your decision. Oh ya -- I think it's called psychology. It's doesn't matter if it's right or wrong if you can't correct it. I have found approaching people like a freight train seldom has a positive outcome. People will do the opposite even if it's wrong and all you have done is burned your bridges and not corrected the problem. There is always at least 2 sides to an issue and more often than naught there are many factors. Your view of the problem might not necessarily be the total picture. I see it every day, pilots trying to out guess company and corporate decisions. They never have the "full" and complete picture. My answer to them is "just do your job"
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I work with a diplomatic approach most of the time.
This is just public ranting, as I find it unbelievably stupid that AC employees, so called professional pilots, will blindly defend the company, and distort the story -- "hard landing YHZ) or " simple missed approach, SFO", just because they work there. What is this, your favourite sports team? Can do no wrong? Grow up, I say. Act like a professional, even if its unpopular.
But such people are totally gutless. No courage, no integrity. People pleasers. And that is a good way to end up dead, or broke.
I work very nice with people, and that generally works out, but it's on my own terms.
I'm in a position, I don't have to negotiate, nor say yes if I don't wish to. And if I don't respect someone, don't trust them, the answer is no.
I guess if you want to be a big ballsy type of guy and pound on your chest and say "I kiss no one's ass" all the more power to you but like most things there likely a far better approach to accomplish the same results and not piss everyone off and have people think you are a total idiot. I never liked trying to push a chain is just never seems to work. The trick is to able to get you point across and have people respect your decision. Oh ya -- I think it's called psychology. It's doesn't matter if it's right or wrong if you can't correct it. I have found approaching people like a freight train seldom has a positive outcome. People will do the opposite even if it's wrong and all you have done is burned your bridges and not corrected the problem. There is always at least 2 sides to an issue and more often than naught there are many factors. Your view of the problem might not necessarily be the total picture. I see it every day, pilots trying to out guess company and corporate decisions. They never have the "full" and complete picture. My answer to them is "just do your job"
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I work with a diplomatic approach most of the time.
This is just public ranting, as I find it unbelievably stupid that AC employees, so called professional pilots, will blindly defend the company, and distort the story -- "hard landing YHZ) or " simple missed approach, SFO", just because they work there. What is this, your favourite sports team? Can do no wrong? Grow up, I say. Act like a professional, even if its unpopular.
But such people are totally gutless. No courage, no integrity. People pleasers. And that is a good way to end up dead, or broke.
I work very nice with people, and that generally works out, but it's on my own terms.
I'm in a position, I don't have to negotiate, nor say yes if I don't wish to. And if I don't respect someone, don't trust them, the answer is no.