I guess that what I am trying to say is that hard work is necessary but admittedly not sufficient
to achieve glorious, legendary success.
You need to work hard, and smart if you want to be successful. And you'd better be in the right
place at the right time. See Bill Gates, for example, before he went woke. He was a very bright
guy that worked very hard at the exact right moment in human history when there was an enormous
demand for his product. If he was born in the 19th century he would have been just another skinny,
near-sighted loser. Timing is important.
I understand your guitar frustration. I see the same thing in aerobatics - someone practices their
mistakes, over and over again, until some grumpy old guy with a handheld on the ground shouts at
them to do something differently.
You're only young once, and you might not be able to do it when you're older
I tell people to start flight training at age 10 if they want to be any good as a pilot. Look at all
the F1 drivers, the motoGP riders - they started at ridiculously young ages.
Ideally, you want to be 18 years old with 10 years experience, to get your foot in the door.
It is a fact that anyone that starts flying at age 40, will never be as good as if they had started
30 years ago. When they are 45, they only have 5 years experience, instead of over a third of
a century.
It's important to realize that when you first start doing something - anything - technique intensive,
it will take 95% of your brain to do it. This is ok playing a guitar, but not on a motorcycle or airplane,
where you don't have any brains left over for situational awareness.
But over time, the percentage of your brain required to perform a technique-intensive task drops,
and if you're good, it probably only takes 5% of your brain to skillfully ride a motorcycle or fly an
airplane. You can spend the other 95% of your brain on SA, staying alive.
This is why you want to start young, at anything reasonably challenging. NASA did a study a
while back on aircraft accidents, and the single conclusion that they reached was that the earlier
a pilot started flight training, the less likely he was to have an accident, because in a challenging
situation, he had more time left over to think about the problem, because he could fly an airplane
without hardly any thought, the way you shift gears on a manual transmission after a million miles.
This is interesting to those of us that are interested in not crashing and dying.